As I've gotten older I've grown to acknowledge that at any point in time in any relationship (dating, long term dating, engagement, marriage, etc) any single person is capable for cheating on their significant other. [What actions everyone defines as cheating looks different] .... Every person makes a choice every day and every minute during their relationship if and when they are truly committed to one another.
Of course, every girl would love to think they're near perfect, prince charming would never do anything to do them. Women need to realize that if they are with a real man who would own up to his decisions and actions wouldn't intentionally hurt their woman. A mans perspective is often clouded by not realizing their actions would hurt someone.... Sounds sexist but it's true. (Women handle life better; we are expected to provide for our children financially and emotionally. Women gives years of their life to their children whereas, men can so easily continue building their fucking empire).
I don't mean to come off as a pessimist but, it's everyone woman looking out for herself in the real world. Yes, it's nice to have someone there to take care of you and be there for you but at the end of the day regardless of what life decides to throw at you the only person who will be there to cry about it, suck it, and move on will be yourself.
Every person is capable of any action, it's up to them to decide how one reacts with the options presented to them.
All I know about myself is that it's all black and white to me. If anyone were to do anything that would truly hurt me after being so vulnerable and giving, there would be no turning back. Would it be easy? Fuck no it wouldn't. It would probably be the most painful thing I would have to experience in my life yet. But in life, there no living if you aren't risking things.
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